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“Rumination is a persistent and repetitive pattern of self-focused thinking, which includes analyzing reasons for negative mood and failure.

The word rumination comes from the Latin term ruminari and means to chew cud—partially digested food that is regurgitated from the stomach for another round of chewing. In fact, the first stomach compartment of ruminants (cattle, deer, giraffes) is known as the rumen. When we ruminate, we are mentally chewing partially digested thoughts. Essentially it is emotional reflux.”   ~Dr. Samantha Boardman

Rumination, the endless replaying of thoughts or worries in our minds, can be exhausting and detrimental to our mental well-being. If left unchecked, it can lead to increased stress,  a sense of hopelessness and helplessness, anxiety, and even depression. Learning how to stop ruminating is crucial for maintaining a healthy mindset and improving overall quality of life. Here are some effective strategies to break free from the cycle of rumination:

• Recognize and acknowledge: The first step in overcoming rumination is to become aware of when it’s happening. Notice the patterns of repetitive thinking and the triggers that set them off. Acknowledge that rumination is not helpful and commit to changing this habit.
• Practice mindfulness: Mindfulness techniques, such as meditation or deep breathing exercises, can help you stay present and aware of your thoughts without getting caught up in them. This can break the cycle of rumination by redirecting your focus to the present moment.
• Challenge negative thoughts: Often, rumination involves dwelling on negative scenarios or self-critical thoughts. Challenge these thoughts by asking yourself if they are based on facts or if they are distorted by emotions. Replace negative thoughts with more balanced and realistic ones.
• Set aside “worry time”: Allocate a specific time each day to address your concerns and worries. During this designated “worry time,” allow yourself to think about these issues without interruption. Outside of this time, practice redirecting your thoughts to more positive or productive activities.
• Engage in activities: Keep yourself occupied with activities that you enjoy and that absorb your attention. Whether it’s a hobby, exercise, or spending time with loved ones, engaging in activities can help distract you from rumination and lift your mood.
• Seek support: Talking to a trusted friend, family member, or therapist can provide perspective and support. They can offer guidance on how to manage rumination and provide reassurance during challenging times.
• Practice self-compassion: Be kind to yourself and recognize that everyone experiences setbacks and difficulties. Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding that you would offer to a friend.

• BREATHE: Experience the physiological responses that bringing awareness to your breath can create. Then use conscious connected breathing to release the stress

Breaking free from rumination takes time and effort, but with persistence and the right strategies, you can cultivate a more positive and balanced mindset. By practicing mindfulness, challenging negative thoughts, and seeking support when needed, you can reduce rumination and foster greater mental resilience and well-being in your daily life.